I’ve been asked to give a groomsman speech and feel really unsure about it?
Question by martin b: I’ve been asked to give a groomsman speech and feel really unsure about it?
Im going to be groomsman for my best mate (who was my best man) this june (his brothers best man). They’ve asked me to give a speech but im not sure if i want to. Most speeches at drag on and i feel really uneasy about it. can i say no without looking like a complete arsehole?
Best answer:
Answer by Libby
The perfect speech is 2-3 minutes. So we’re not exactly talking a state of the union address here.
A groomsman speech is easy. Start by saying who you are and how long you’ve known the groom, tell a funny (but clean) anecdote from sometime in the past to get a chuckle, mention briefly what a good guy he is, then start talking about how it was when he first met his fiance (if you knew him before then). Mention how he changed, became happier, more peaceful, head-over heels in love, never looked at any girl that way before, etc etc. If the bride starts tearing up, you’re doing good. Then say how you couldn’t imagine any woman more perfect for your best friend, than the bride. Raise your glass, congratulate them, ask everyone to toast with you, and then you’re done!
See? Easy. =) You don’t have to be long-winded. Short and sweet but from the heart is best.
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